Timesharing Schedules That Actually Work (Not Just “On Paper”)

A timesharing schedule should fit your child’s life—not just your calendar. The best schedules consider school routines, extracurricular activities, travel time, holidays, and the child’s temperament and developmental stage.

One of the biggest mistakes parents make is agreeing to a schedule they can’t maintain. When a schedule constantly breaks down, it increases conflict and creates instability for the child. A strong parenting plan includes clear exchange times, holiday rotations, transportation responsibilities, and communication guidelines.

If you’re negotiating timesharing, focus on predictability and consistency first. Then customize: sports, band, therapy appointments, and the realities of work schedules. A workable plan reduces future disputes because expectations are clear from the beginning.

CALL TO ACTION: If you want help building a practical, court-ready parenting plan, Brasher Mediations Plus can help you prepare before mediation or court.